Please hover over and select the best answer. <section><h2>Perception is key</h2><p><p dir="ltr">Does your husband have a highly stressful job? Is he a sole proprietor running his multi-million dollar business or a VP of a fortune 500 company? Do you find yourself often home alone left to look after the house and kids? Do you have feelings of resentment and just can't shake the negativity? You want to be happily married, but just don't know how. Are you ready to stop pointing the finger at him and take a deeper look at yourself?</p><p dir="ltr"> </p><p dir="ltr">Take this quick evaluation - find out how accountable you are for your actions and if you have negative thoughts clouding your judgment.</p><br /></p></section><section><h2><h2></h2><h1><strong>Healthy Perspective</strong></h1></h2><p><p></p><p dir="ltr">Everyday you are faced with opportunities to work on your craft. The art of perception is a skill and it looks like you are well aware of your responsibility to master it. I believe that in order to perfect this; there are Three Key areas to focus on:</p><ul><li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"><p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Seed Planting</p></li><li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"><p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Recognizing Illusions</p></li><li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"><p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Kindness</p></li></ul><p dir="ltr">Continue to be accountable for your contributions to your current situation and you will continue to prosper. You are in control of your story. Make it one you are proud of. </p><br /><p dir="ltr"></p><br /><p><br /></p></p></section><section><h3><h1></h1><h1><strong>Negative Thoughts</strong></h1></h3><p><p></p>Have you ever heard you are what you think? You must believe it in order for it to be true? Let’s pretend for a moment that a botanist gave you two different seeds. You were instructed to plant them both in rich well drained soil but you were only allowed to water one. The first seed will grow to a big strong tree that will protect you from storms. It will bear fruit for you to eat. It will be fragrant and beautiful. The second seed will also grow to be a big strong tree that will protect you from the storm. It too will bear fruit but this fruit is poisonous so you cannot eat it. It too will be fragrant but the odor will make you sick. Which one do you choose to water? <p></p></p></section><section><h3><h1><strong>Lead With Love</strong></h1></h3><p><p></p>It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. Some messages get lost in translation because they are not delivered correctly. Have you ever crafted the perfect email, pressed “send”, and then realized your CAPS LOCK was on. You immediately <Reply All> “Sorry for ALL CAPS”. You recognized the receiver would presume you were yelling at them. You corrected your mistake immediately; argument averted. I want you to look at this scenario two ways: Are you more concerned with not upsetting other people than you are your own spouse? Are you even aware that your CAPS LOCK is on? <p></p></p></section><section><h3><h2></h2><h1><strong>Change your Perception. </strong></h1></h3><p><p></p>Illusions are tricky and they are designed to fool the mind. They are created as a result of your brain attempting to find a shortcut to a solution. Your brain is smart and efficient and it does not want to process the same information everytime it encounters it. This allows you to get to the result quickly without truly breaking down the situation. While this is efficient, is it accurate? Just as illusions appear in nature in the form of rainbows, desert mirages and sunrises/sunsets; they too can be found in the mind. Be careful as you maneuver through your relationships. Your brain might have high speed access to a false belief. <p></p></p></section><section><h2><h2>Your spouse/significant other comments that the house is dirty. You....</h2><h2> </h2></h2></section><section><h3><h2></h2><h2>Your "Love Language" is RECEIVING GIFTS. He buys you new furniture, but you've had your eye on the new Birkin. You...</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>You spouse's "Love Language" is PHYSICAL TOUCH and you just realized you haven't had sex in 2 weeks.</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>Compared to the size you were when you got married you are significantly larger/smaller. Should your spouse still be attracted to you? </h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>You're in the middle of an argument; all you can think about is...</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>You're at a social event with all his friends and no one knows your name. A friend of his addresses you as "Bob's Wife". You</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>You find out your husband is "liking" sexy pictures of another woman on Instagram. You</h2></h3></section><section><h3><h2>It's Girl's Night!!! Your husband walks in the door late from work. You...</h2></h3></section>
